Christian Grey and Anastasia Steele may have made the whole country blush with their explicit (and rather vanilla) use of BDSM in Fifty Shades of Grey, but they also opened up a whole window of sex toys, right into your bedroom. Sex toys, meant to add to the pleasure and also make the act more interesting and fun, can surprisingly also help your relationship bond grow stronger. Yes, you read that right.
Experts suggest that sex toys are the perfect way to help spice up things in the bedroom, and also let you have a variety of exciting experiences, all of while can lead to a happier you, and your partner! Think multiple orgasms!
Plus, if you can’t orgasm with only penetrative sex-and a lot of us can’t-then these are the perfect add-ons. However, the biggest problem with introducing sex toys could be that one of you can feel a little threatened or out of your comfort zone
Think about it, the fact that your partner is getting more turned on by a toy than you, can be a tad damaging. In that case, the best thing to do is to start small. We’ve pick three non-threatening toys that aren’t too out there, to make both of you feel comfortable ease you into the concept of sex toys.
So, this month, put on your sexy shoes lingerie and check out these three sex toys that can help heat up the action between the sheets.
One of the simplest sex toys is vibrators. If you are just introducing sex toys to your relationship, starting out with a vibrator can keep things non-threatening and fun without stepping away too much from the comfort zone. They came in various sizes and shapes, so pick one that you both love and watch the magic.
2. Vibrating Rings
A sex toy for both the partners, this is also a non-threatening third person in your bedroom. The extra vibrating sensation down under helps double the pleasure for everyone involved. What’s not to like?
Yes it is a sex toy, and another pleasure giver. If you are nervous, or for some reason cannot get in the right mood, lubes can help set the tone of the night. Plus, who doesn’t love some extra foreplay?!